The words were splayed across her bare back, taunting girls that their virginity is something to be less than valued.  As if nobody will accept and by extension love a girl if she hasn’t had sex before.  That girls who weren’t willing to bare it all, just to be “did”, were girls that were a little less than human, hardly woman at all; girls unwilling to “put out” aren’t worth anybody’s time, and if a girl isn’t worth anybody’s time clearly they aren’t worth anything at all. Nobody does a virgin.  The injustice of this statement and all of its devastating implications welled up to something close to anger inside of me – and as such things often do, I was inspired to write about it. Continue reading “Nobody does a VIRGIN”